How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What I need from you?

Since the Brits can't steer their oil tanker, what makes them think they can take on Russia?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Procrastinates a lot.

What might be the social consequences of an ethnic as opposed to a civic conception of the nation?

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How do I complain on a boy coming to marriage with me without my involvement despite no connection with him though he had an illegal affair?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

That's it for today.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How did you respond to, "Why do you love me"?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Have you ever regretted not hitting on a older women?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Humans have evolved and become hairless and odor free. How do other races learn about evolution since evolution does not apply to them?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

My boyfriend always verbally abuse me and makes me cry. If I try to tell him how hurt I was, he says to me he loves me and can't hurt me but always abuse me. Why?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Why are conservatives banning liberal books? Why are conservatives so offended by the teaching of racism and other topics?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Why do I feel like I want to suck a big dick after injecting meth?

Hangs out with loser friends.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Do you think the beginning of movies is often better than the rest of the film? Is this a common opinion or do others share this view?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Does not procrastinate.

When do you start "growing old"?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do not set goals—set systems.

Im happy but there is a heavy feeling of sadness in my heart that I just can't remove. Why am I like this?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

What is the scariest thing that ever happened in your life?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Making more friends is a goal.